HELP NEEDED!!! To save Christmas for my son and to save us from losing our farm and home!!
I have way too many items to be sold but hard to get buyers so far!
My son and I have been through the storm for since 2018....
March 2018 - I Virgina, we lost our rental home on 150 acres to a fire. We lost everything inside the home including our 9yo dog and cat my son's 2 best friends, he was 7yo. (My man of 11 years at the time/my sons dad, was still with us at the time)
We got an Rv and got prepped to move us, 4 equines, 3 goats, 20 chickens, and a Scottish Higland Cow to the Panhandle of Florida to be able to help my aging parents.
June 2018 - Moved to an awesome farm in our RV. Minimalist life was great!!
October 2018 - CAT 5 Hurricane Michael hit... Wiped out a lot of our area. Our farm and RV and animals were ok. Parents house was badly damaged. I helped them pack their entore house, move it into storage, and move them into a rental.
In the meantime my man had become a raging alcoholic and drug addict after the move (no thanks to my alcoholic brothers)
May 2020 - We moved to a 6 acre farm on the East Coast of Florida.
From there, when we moved away from all friends and family, my man became a narcissistic abusive raging alcoholic drug addict.... I broke up with him but he refused to leave for 2 years and the abuse got so bad, my son and I were living in hell!!!
Dec 2, 2022, my mom passed away.
May 2023 I finally got my X out of our home. After some crazy stalking and threats every day rhe cops ran him off and he ended up moving to Delaware; where his life began to go into even more of a downward spiral. Our son refused to talk to his own father. I was being constantly threatened if him coming back to kill me or kill himself in front of me or steal our son, all to make me suffer loss like he did.... I loved thay man for years, but I couldn't save him!! One of the hardest lessons in life is wanting to save someone but hen not wanting to save themselves....
When he left. He left, he destroyed our car. He had ruined every friendship of mine because he made up crazy lies about me and he became the victim in it all somehow... My income was taken from doing instacart, shipt, Uber eats, doordash and other side jobs. I've gotten 3 vehicles since and all ended up having issues at some point. I've had 2 broken down vehicles for almost a year... My son and I have been stuck at our farm except an occasional ride from a friend to the dollar general and the feed store and I work when I can find side jobs with someone who can pick me up to work.... No child support, no government assistance, no family, and very few friends..A few times I have gotten a jobs doing foreclosed estate home cleanouts and was selling things here and there. I then started an ongoing indoor yard sale with all the treasures I had rescued. It took a year to clean the building and set it up. It looked like a thrift store. It can hold 20 cars and it full of amazing treasures that I had rescued from being trashed. But I am off the beaten path so foot traffic is slow, and the locals are very cheap... Then I found whatnot about 5 months ago. I was so excited to start selling and I absolutely fell in love with the community there! I have done a few shows and have sold almost 400 items so far; although a lot of those items were small to big bundles. But my shows are so slow, I have amazing items but no buyers in my room... and then I have struggled with internet issues out here in the country. I have been trying to find other sellers with more traffic it their rooms to help ke liquidate my things. I have had 2 sellers schedule to come but then they baled on me last minute. The latest one being they were supposed to be here TODAY but canceled on Sunday. My son and I were so let down and upset! We thought we were finally going to be able to get caught up on bills and fix my car or truck. All he wants for Christmas is to not get evicted and to have a truck so we can go to work (he's a 14yo entrepreneur and loves to go to work with me) and he wants to be able to give fishing or anywhere we want, whenever we want. We are both sick of being stuck at home on our farm 24/7 and having to beg and pay for rides to get to the dollar general and feed store about 1 to 3x a week when I can find a ride...
Oct 28, 2025 - My X / Son's father shot and killed himself šŖ (my son thinks he just passed away from the alcohol.... I couldn't barely to tell him what really happened š
Dec 2, 2025 - Animal control took my sons dog that he got for Christmas in 2018. Long story short, we have an unneighborly KAREN! My dog is not aggressive and caused no damage! He went there the 1st time, she knew he was ours, when I found him, she didn't want to give him back. She had fed him and was playing with him and letting him pay with her dog. And she held him by his collar on her porch to restrict him from coming to us! After that, he thought he had a friend and could go visit them occasionally... About once a month to every other month for a year, he would find a moment to escape and run directly to that Karen's house. She lets him in her fenced yard and praised and feeds him and then calls the cops and animal control.... I have had to pay $1000 already in fines, but he is our family and I tried to do everything to keep him from darting off like he would out of the blue occasionally, always when the wind was blowing from the neighbors way. In reality, instead of her yelling at him to go home, she praised him and taught him that it was ok to go there, am I not right about that?? But anyways animal control won't let us have him back and because I would not surrender him, I have to go to court on Jan 27th to fight to get my sons dog back!!! I will have to pay court costs and boarding for 2 months! But it is worth ot for my son!!! I am going to do all I can do to get him back!!!
So now, here we are TODAY, Christmas is in 2 days and I am I still late on half of my rent $700 & my electric is due on Dec 27th. I don't have a penny to my name and not a single gift for my son, but I have soooo many good treasures to sell and I know how amazing the whatnot community is. I just haven't found my whatnot tribe yet. I have never been in need of HELP like this, I have always been the one to help others and I plan to get back to that position soon!
Sorry for such a long book, but I am an open honest book. I am a fighter and a survivor! I regret none of the above I have shared with you all a d I don'twant anyone to feel bad for me. I believe all things happen for a reason. Everyone we meet and all of our experiences are for a reason and are all lessons we are supposed to grow and learn from to become better humans. Show kindness and love to all! I do not judge & I do not hate others!
What I NEED:
Looking to sell in bulk reseller bundles.
Willing to do private showings online of my inventory.
Or come to my live whatnot shows and send your friends there too!
Looking for sellers to come and hold their own shows here. Split the $$ 50/50, you cover all shipping.
Or looking for others to come help me sell on my shows, list items in the buy it now bin and split the $$ 60%me/ 40% to you, I provide shipping materials and you just help pack things...
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated!!



